tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7915600.post113755012332421121..comments2023-10-29T08:13:44.434-04:00Comments on Micro Preemie Twins: The Story of H & E: Now We're Rolling!Billiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10589229199716201638noreply@blogger.comBlogger18125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7915600.post-1141442872372890012006-03-03T22:27:00.000-05:002006-03-03T22:27:00.000-05:00You continue to astound me with your strength. My ...You continue to astound me with your strength. My son is the same chronological age as your girls, and we've been following your story since they were born. In fact, your blog is always in the drop-down menu on our browser, because we visit so often! :) Being a mom to a normal baby is difficult enough, and being a mom to twins is even harder, but being a mom to preemie twins with such difficulties would crush anyone without the conviction and humanity that you possess. You are an inspiration and a terrific mother to your darling daughters. Seeing their faces when you post just lights up my day, even when they are not doing well. Of course, you know that old chestnut: God never gives us more than we can handle! And you, my dear, can handle it. Like a star. You are blessed.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7915600.post-1138383070192544912006-01-27T12:31:00.000-05:002006-01-27T12:31:00.000-05:00Go Eden! What a celebration! Your girls are absol...Go Eden! What a celebration! Your girls are absolutely beautiful and you guys are obviously doing a great job raising them. I admire your strength and resilience over the last few months. Hang in there!hallegracesmamahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18330502847862607417noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7915600.post-1137803446958676252006-01-20T19:30:00.000-05:002006-01-20T19:30:00.000-05:00I just wanted to say I just found your blog this e...I just wanted to say I just found your blog this evening, and all those feelings you have, are normal, either that or I'm abnormal too. I'm mum to a now 6 year old 24 weeker, who has Autism and Learning Disabilities amongst other things.<BR/><BR/>It's been a long hard 6 years, and you do grieve along the way, for the what might have beens. The if only's....still stuggling with those now.<BR/><BR/>Those small things that lots of mothers with FT children take for granted, bring huge smiles to our faces, another milestone reached.<BR/><BR/>Debbypreemiemumhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03890531070030198540noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7915600.post-1137791809200587202006-01-20T16:16:00.000-05:002006-01-20T16:16:00.000-05:00From reading your blog, I sense that you are an am...From reading your blog, I sense that you are an amazing woman and that you are giving Eden everything she needs to reach her full potential (and then some).<BR/><BR/>I cannot begin to appreciate how tough the last year has been for you. I’m the mother of a child with a disability, but my story pales in comparison. My son was born full term but became deathly ill when he was 2 weeks old. He was admitted to PICU and was hospitalized for a month. He pulled through but never was a “normal” baby. He had multiple developmental delays and by the time he was 3 he was diagnosed as autistic.<BR/><BR/>For the longest time I could only see how severe his delays were and how different he was from his brother (who is only a year older). I was despondent and I mourned the loss of the perfect child for many years.<BR/><BR/>Now, he’s 7 and looking back, the best words of advice I receive (though I hated it at the time) were reminders not to compare him to his brother and other children. Each and every child is unique. Celebrate achievements in the context of the child and don’t dwell on the “cannot” or the “shoulds”<BR/><BR/>Does it get easier? I thing you are very wise to realize that those words are mainly meant to comfort you. Things only become easier in the sense that they become more familiar. Each stage brings its new challenges, plateaus and achievements. But, isn’t the same true of any child?<BR/><BR/>Eden may yet surprise you. My son may never be “normal” but we found out when he started school that he is actually quite intelligent. I had let his language and motor delays blind me. I had assumed he was mentally challenged based only on his struggles. He couldn’t walk or talk until quite late, he couldn’t dress himself until recently (and most of the time he gets his pants and shirt on backwards) -- how can he have an above normal intellect? The brain is a mysterious organ.<BR/><BR/>You have two beautiful daughters – all the best to you!Lynannehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02416883491055528952noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7915600.post-1137727717984817082006-01-19T22:28:00.000-05:002006-01-19T22:28:00.000-05:00oh yeah, i forgot. i don't know who adam is, but ...oh yeah, i forgot. i don't know who adam is, but he will have to fight aidan for those hands in marriage :) maybe one for each? as long as the new ("i aint coming out until i'm good and ready") boy doesn't fall inlove, i think it'll work. :)<BR/>lisAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7915600.post-1137727513833712782006-01-19T22:25:00.000-05:002006-01-19T22:25:00.000-05:00i love you guys. and that's about all i have to s...i love you guys. and that's about all i have to say about that :) kisses all around.<BR/>lisAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7915600.post-1137718893075403702006-01-19T20:01:00.000-05:002006-01-19T20:01:00.000-05:00I can't beleive how much your beautiful girls have...I can't beleive how much your beautiful girls have over come- Ms. Holland standing like a big girl, and Ms. Eden becoming mobile! I wish them continued leaps and bounds over the next year and years to come. Billie if anyone can handle this its you!Kacy Jeanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09227641926538250145noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7915600.post-1137623131387988252006-01-18T17:25:00.000-05:002006-01-18T17:25:00.000-05:00Congrats on these new achievements. Like many have...Congrats on these new achievements. Like many have said, there are definitely ups and downs and I'm glad to see you are having some more up days. You deserve them!<BR/><BR/>AmyAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7915600.post-1137615343200373442006-01-18T15:15:00.000-05:002006-01-18T15:15:00.000-05:00You are an amazing person. -EYou are an amazing person. -EAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7915600.post-1137611258099641612006-01-18T14:07:00.000-05:002006-01-18T14:07:00.000-05:00I'm glad to see that you are starting to make the ...I'm glad to see that you are starting to make the turn around the corner and starting to see the light. Everyone needs to go through that tunnel of grief to the other side. I know that one day, Eden will appreciate your love and strength to help her be all that she can be.Heatherhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01879753863902363299noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7915600.post-1137610453012843072006-01-18T13:54:00.000-05:002006-01-18T13:54:00.000-05:00Im so excited for Little Eden. I know how excited ...Im so excited for Little Eden. I know how excited you must be. Holland will look as cute as she can be in glasses. Hallie has them and they arent as bad as you would think. She hardly takes them off but her eye is a 12, so i think she may just be happy she can see. I was excited to read your new post. Your spirit seems to be back to your positive self. Your story helps so many of us. You are such a great mother to the girls, it shows through your journal. Keep up the good work with Holland and Eden.HHHhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17760524701484038890noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7915600.post-1137597558602462432006-01-18T10:19:00.000-05:002006-01-18T10:19:00.000-05:00Dear Billie and John:I am so glad to hear about Ed...Dear Billie and John:<BR/>I am so glad to hear about Eden's mobility! that's great! I remember being so excited when Merry finally caught on to rolling...she had to have physical therapy to learn to do it, but she did it!<BR/>I totally believe that Eden will crawl, walk and run. Keep the faith.<BR/><BR/>Much love,<BR/>Kendra<BR/><BR/>p.s. as for the glasses, there is nothing cuter than little tots with glasses...maybe they aren't fun, but they sure are cute! :)Kendra Lynnhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10987312000889846337noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7915600.post-1137595215737448362006-01-18T09:40:00.000-05:002006-01-18T09:40:00.000-05:00Eden must be so happy to be moving around!You guys...Eden must be so happy to be moving around!<BR/><BR/>You guys are doing a wonderful job with your girls. I deal with adults with disbailities all of the time (I do the training at my job & we have quite a few disabled employees-even a 24-weeker with CP and blindness). I don't know how they were treated as children, but I can tell you that there are big differences between those that accept their disabilities and are not defined by them - and those that feel that they are their disability. JimmieJimmiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00885360854320830685noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7915600.post-1137592143053635632006-01-18T08:49:00.000-05:002006-01-18T08:49:00.000-05:00I hope you know my day starts with a smile when I ...I hope you know my day starts with a smile when I check in and there are new pictures! I especially love the one of Holland peeking outside. Won't be long Holland and it will be spring!<BR/>I was also happy to hear that you're feeling better too Billie.<BR/>Roll on Edie...Roll ON!<BR/>Love, Mamma JulesAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7915600.post-1137591131762312452006-01-18T08:32:00.000-05:002006-01-18T08:32:00.000-05:00Hooray for Eden! Thrilled to hear she can get whe...Hooray for Eden! Thrilled to hear she can get where she wants by herself. She must feel quite big now! I miss you, Billie,<BR/>-KrisAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7915600.post-1137564112237256592006-01-18T01:01:00.000-05:002006-01-18T01:01:00.000-05:00Yay, Eden! Roll away, girlie! As a teacher/assis...Yay, Eden! Roll away, girlie! <BR/><BR/>As a teacher/assistant principal, I can tell you that your statement about Eden having a disability, but not letting it define who she is will set the tone for your daughter and how she perceives her strengths, as well as her limitations. Your attitude (& your husband's) make an unbelievable difference and will encourage her to work hard to overcome obstacles. <BR/><BR/>I love your honesty and the fact that you use this public forum to work through your emotions. By sharing, you are helping many others in your position work through their feelings, as well.Amyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09473178461700511405noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7915600.post-1137557806151073872006-01-17T23:16:00.000-05:002006-01-17T23:16:00.000-05:00Thanks for the update!You are the best mommy! Good...Thanks for the update!<BR/><BR/>You are the best mommy! Good for you and your goals I think they are great and I think that your girls will be so proud of you as they grow up!Kate Giovinco Photographyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04706763719847053772noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7915600.post-1137553531053418902006-01-17T22:05:00.000-05:002006-01-17T22:05:00.000-05:00Just being the person you are is the best example ...Just being the person you are is the best example you can set for both of your girls!! They are both sooo lucky to have you. Luv Liz (P.S. LOVE the new pic's)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com